It’s been a while since I had my last real relationship, got scared maybe but I was brave enough to attempt to build a new one. Though they have been all failures, even the ones that I have taken big risks have turned into heartaches. But how does one cope up with all these travesties of love?
Pero paano nga ba magmove on ang broken hearted?
Here are some of the things that I have thought of doing to mend a bleeding heart.
1. Take up a new hobby.
Change is good. Your usual routine may remind you of ex establishing new routines may let you create new memories, possibly better ones.
See new places and meet new people. Understanding the world and experiencing humanity’s kindness may relieve you from the pain and that you experience from one rotten egg.
3. Talk to people
At some point of your grieving will need to process all these emotions and thoughts that you have. Doing it alone may be futile for some, sometimes even dangerous. A friend who will listen without any judgement,having someone listen will help you process all these thoughts.
4. Change things up around your home.
It may be as simple as changing how your furniture is arrange to as extreme as changing your furniture. The point is starting to have plans of your life ahead and building new ones. Changing some of these things may not be as big as it may seem but it will give you a sense of jump-start if you will.
5. Find A New Love
A friend told me once that the best solution for displacement is replacement. Some people will find this drastic but some people find jumping into a relationship after one helps them forget about the past. I my self find this a bit extreme but who knows if your heart is willing.
Do keep in mind that these are just ideas that I have thought of after going through a rough breakup. They may help others but just like me not all of them worked the magic.